There could be change coming soon that will lead to people wanting to say their piece and you might not want to hear it. Rather than let this turn into conflict and a battle of wills, sit back and let them have their say no matter how hard that seems to do. By embracing this you are going to bring a level of calm to what could be potentially a very explosive battle of the minds. You may not want to face this confrontation, but it is not going to go away by avoiding it so you might as well face what is coming and allow everyone to have their say. Try establishing a well-balanced respectful meeting or a brainstorming session if this is a work problem. Whatever your situation is, by staying calm and taking on board everyone’s view point, you can make a decision for the greater good rather than out of resentment or anger.

You know that the people around you are right to a certain degree. You are not that happy with a certain situation or person and inside you are battling with yourself, this could be a ‘should I go or should I stay’ dilemma or even a ‘how do I confront them with this difficult situation?’ Whatever the problem, you know that you can’t avoid if forever which is what you are doing now. Have courage and the strength to believe that your decision and your point of view is just as valid as everyone else’s. If you face the problem and the people involved with empathy and respect, you really will achieve a greater outcome rather than shouting the odds to anyone who wants to hear it. This needs to be dealt with delicately and with as less fuss as possible.

Sometimes you just want everyone around you to shut the hell up! You are aware that they are just trying to help but all they are really doing is just adding to the chaos and confusion you find yourself in right now! You have decisions to be made. There could even be huge changes taking place and you just need to step back and have a think about what you want. The problem is you are being given advice left right and centre and no one is really listening to what you want. This could be leading to conflict and upset by you allowing everyone to overwhelm you with their pieces of wisdom. Get yourself away from everyone, find a peaceful place and take time to think out what you want to do in this situation. You have heard all of their advice, take it gratefully but then decide what you want for a happy, peaceful life.

You are hoping for all of this chaos and confusion to finally come to a peaceful conclusion. People around you have been trying to get their point across but because they are doing it at the same time it is leading to arguments and conflict. If only everyone would have a bit more respect for one another, take a step back and appreciate what everyone else has to say. This is what you want right now as a problem has arisen or a change has taken place which needs a supportive team effort, not all of these cross wires and battles of the mind. You are worried that if someone doesn’t get a grip of this and create some sort of productive way forward, you are going to remain in this argumentative mode which will bring further ill feeling and anger. Perhaps you are the one who will suggest a brain storming session or a respect meeting of the minds so that you can all move forward to a peaceful resolution. Whatever transpires, a peaceful resolution is needed as soon as possible.

There is change afoot and if you don’t deal with this quickly and correctly, arguments and bad feelings could manifest pretty quickly. This situation is going to lead to a difference of opinion with the people around you, so be prepared to sit back and listen to their view points because if you don’t this could lead to a full on battle of minds and will. Everyone wants to put their view point into the melting point but all at the same time, which will just lead to confusion and chaos. You will desperately be trying to get a grip on this, so be mindful to hold your tongue and let others speak. Once you have taken on board what everyone else has to say then you can make your decision on what is best for you. The key is not avoid this confrontation. Get hold of it quick so you can get yourself into a peaceful resolution a lot quicker.