You know it’s coming whether you like it or not. A relationship or situation is untenable and the end is nigh. It just isn’t working and to top it all you know that someone has been stabbing you in the back or betraying you. You must get control over this situation or person now rather than put off the inevitable through fear of change. It will hurt and you will be ending something very familiar but you know it is the only way that you can really find true happiness and reach your full potential. Be mindful when this happens to mentally move on from this situation as well as physically. Do not carry the burden of your pain into the next phase of your life. Be strong, learn everything you can from this experience and know that it has served to make you stronger and wiser for the future.

This is where you need to be careful as becoming a victim is really not going to make you shine as a person. A situation has unfolded where you have experienced hurt beyond words or have been betrayed by someone that you trusted. You want to get under a duvet and shut the world out playing the victim but that’s not really who you are. You know that you are a survivor and can manage this pain until it lessens. You have the knowledge and wisdom to know that this all happened for a reason and that you have learned a lot from it. You also know that despite fearing the change, you can adapt and go with whatever comes your way. Don’t be weakened by holding on to the past and what was done to you. Focus on your future, your potential and opening up your world to new and exciting opportunities. You’ve got this, it’s just part of life’s rich tapestry.

You are in a situation at the moment whether it is work or personal where you know that you are being lied to or stabbed in the back. The sense of betrayal is knocking you for six and what hurts even more is that you trusted this person implicitly or even loved them like no other. They have shown their true colours and this is the end of an era where they can no longer hurt you. So do not let your emotions bring about weakness. This should be a time to let go of this person or situation and have no fear in making change and moving forward. Self-pity is not an option, inner strength and focus is. They have spent far too long owning your emotions and wellbeing, it is now time to let go and move on to pastures new. As you heal you will know why this had to take place and remember the past is the past, leave it where it belongs.

This situation or person around you is really not serving you well. You feel that there is something not quite right. You may have uncovered lies or betrayal but are hoping this will not happen again and all will be well. Well this is you wake up call, it won’t! If you stay in this through fear of change the person or situation will have you as their target practice for as long as you allow it. You are terrified of leaving and making it out there on your own, but surely it will be worth it in the long run? You are not happy, you know that you’re being stabbed in the back so stop fearing the change and end this now. Move on, heal as you go and learn from this lesson that has happened for a reason. You will soon discover that your fears of moving on were unfounded as you find a new strength in your energy and embrace exciting new change. Just make sure you leave all of your emotions and thoughts behind with the person that betrayed you. The past stays where it is, in the past.

You have to be brave now and realise that this situation has to end. You are either being stabbed in the back by a work colleague, loved one or partner and enough is enough. You know that they haven’t got your best interests at heart, you may have even caught them out in a lie, but through fear of moving on you continue to be their target practice! If you don’t end this now and make change you are going to be in for a very dismal and unfulfilled future. You have to adopt some self-love here and realise that you deserve better, yes it’s going to sting and yes it’s going to break your heart. As you heal however, you will see how toxic everything was and that you have granted yourself the freedom now to reach your full potential and happiness. Don’t hang on to what this person did to you as you may as well still be there with them. Accept that this is the end of an era and check that you have no emotional attachment to this situation. If you do, seek ways to get it out of your system once and for all.