Sometimes when we are faced with someone who riles us, we just want to shoot from the hip and let them have it! You may be having your buttons pushed by someone in your life and you are near to exploding point. This is the time to pull yourself in and think about what you are going to say or do next. By letting it all out in one fell swoop you could be creating a lot of conflict and resentment if you are not careful. It doesn’t matter who is in the right or who is in the wrong, if you say things that you may later regret you are going to be creating a situation that may be to your detriment. Think before you speak and try and see a way forward where you offer an apology or reach some form of truce. If you go in guns blazing you could be creating a lot of upset in your near future.

You see yourself as a very fair and peaceful person, but if someone rocks your boat they may be at the end of your wrath! You may be in a situation where someone is pushing your buttons and quite frankly you have had enough. You feel that their actions and behaviour are unjust and are fuelling your need to be heard but not in a subtle way! You want to get control over this situation and feel that you need to shout the odds. Take a moment though and try and see if you will later regret any words or actions that you are planning. It does not bode well for our energy to be permanently locked in battle and resentment. Dig deep and find the fair and peaceful side of yourself. Adopt this in this situation as you will come out of it far stronger if you seek to find a resolution rather than engage in a battle of wills.

There is someone around you at the moment who is like a dog with a bone. They will not let go of this argument and are keeping you in a permanent energy of resentment and anger. This conflict is affecting your judgement where you may have said or done things that you regret. You are seeing a nastier side of yourself which deep down you really don’t like. By allowing this battle to rage you are fuelling nothing but negative energy which can be to your detriment and those around you. Don’t allow this person or situation to get to you any longer as you may find that you will isolate yourself from others that are involved. Change your approach and seek to end this with a truce or an apology. It may not sit well with you but it has got to be far better than this endless bad feeling. Be the bigger person, aim for an end to this conflict and focus on moving on leaving all that has been said and done behind.

Things aren’t going great at the moment with a loved one. You seem to be at logger heads and feel the need to snipe at each other at every given opportunity. You hope that a resolution can soon be attained with this situation as quite frankly the conflict is draining you and leaving you feeling nothing but resentment. You want to offer an olive branch just to get some peace back into your life but you fear it may be rejected leaving you in a weaker position. You may even fear that the way you have acted has brought repercussions that can’t be taken back. The best way forward is to continually seek a truce and be the bigger person despite who is wrong or right in this situation. By clearing the air and moving on you will find that you are a lot more positive and wiser. You are hoping for this all to end, so make the first move with compassion and forgiveness in mind so that peace can be restored.

If you don’t hold back on the situation that you find yourself in at the moment you could be headed for a whole load of conflict and upset. You may have someone in your life who does not see your point of view and is treating you unjustly or behaving in an argumentative manner. Even if they are in the wrong and you see the whole thing as totally unjust, think before you speak or act. You could, if you let it all out be putting yourself on the front line for a serious battle of wills which could see you being the loser. To end this conflict, think about aiming for a truce or offering an olive branch as this will make for a happier you. Lose the resentment and ill feeling as this will make you the better person. If you start shouting the odds this could be to your detriment and also alienate you form others involved. Let it go, move on and keep your thoughts to yourself. Choosing your battles wisely is a far better option than fighting everyone that causes you frustration.